I am so sorry to hear this. I know how one BFN after another can feel. Perhaps its time to take a step back, and then try again later when the time is right. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
So so sorry to hear that this try was a negative too. Wish there were words. Just remember that you need to do what is right for you! Whether it is to keep going or just take a little break from it all. Either way one day you will be a mom - you just have to keep trying. Being a mom isn't easy and for some, like yourself, it is a battle from the very beginning - but you seem like a lady with a lot of fight in her.
So sorry to hear your news. Only you know your next step. Whatever it may be, we will all be here with our cyber ears and shoulders to lean on. xx warm wishes to you during this difficult time.
Maggie..I'm so sorry...negatives hurt so....please don't let them dash your dreams or your hope...i know there is nothing I can say to make it better or hurt any less...although we are in similar but different situations I understand where you are coming from...hang in there...
I am very sorry to read your post. The pain of a negative is always so bloody heartbreaking. Please know you are not alone, all of us in blog land are thinking of you and hope you can find the strength to continue your journey when you are ready. xx
It is so hard. We can attest!! We had 8 tries in India, yep, 8. For some of us, the road is not easy. All I can say, is that when it finally happens and you are holding your baby this all becomes a distant memory. Stay strong!!
Dear Maggie, I am so so sorry to read this. You are an amazingly strong woman, and I know that a few BFNs will not stop you from becoming the mom you were meant to be. Love, the mom who went through 8 donor egg cycles (4 with surrogates) before she was finally able to meet her babies... and knows that the wait was so worth it xoxoxooox
I am so sorry to hear this. I know how one BFN after another can feel. Perhaps its time to take a step back, and then try again later when the time is right. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteSo so sorry to hear that this try was a negative too. Wish there were words. Just remember that you need to do what is right for you! Whether it is to keep going or just take a little break from it all. Either way one day you will be a mom - you just have to keep trying. Being a mom isn't easy and for some, like yourself, it is a battle from the very beginning - but you seem like a lady with a lot of fight in her.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear your news. Only you know your next step.
ReplyDeleteWhatever it may be, we will all be here with our cyber ears and shoulders to lean on.
xx warm wishes to you during this difficult time.
Maggie..I'm so sorry...negatives hurt so....please don't let them dash your dreams or your hope...i know there is nothing I can say to make it better or hurt any less...although we are in similar but different situations I understand where you are coming from...hang in there...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read this Maggie, thinking of u and in my prayers tonite BIG HUG x
ReplyDeleteJust horrible! Know that lots of people around the world are thinking of you
ReplyDeleteYou will find the right answer. Give it time. Stay strong. xx
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry to read your post. The pain of a negative is always so bloody heartbreaking. Please know you are not alone, all of us in blog land are thinking of you and hope you can find the strength to continue your journey when you are ready. xx
ReplyDeleteIt is so hard. We can attest!! We had 8 tries in India, yep, 8. For some of us, the road is not easy. All I can say, is that when it finally happens and you are holding your baby this all becomes a distant memory. Stay strong!!
ReplyDeleteDear Maggie, I am so so sorry to read this. You are an amazingly strong woman, and I know that a few BFNs will not stop you from becoming the mom you were meant to be. Love, the mom who went through 8 donor egg cycles (4 with surrogates) before she was finally able to meet her babies... and knows that the wait was so worth it xoxoxooox
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read this. What a let down. Thinking of you C&B
ReplyDeleteTake time to be sad and angry then I really hope you can try again, it took us quite a few tries too, but it still hurts like hell!!
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